It's 4am here in Los Angeles, and I've just got off the air from doing a live interview for the LK morning television show on GMTV in the UK, aired on ITV. Well, it's a good job I did do the link from so far away as the debate started to get a bit heated, and, I still can't believe the denial ridden rubbish that the 'wronged wife' in the London studio was spouting. She really truly believed it was the 'other woman's fault' for MAKING her husband cheat on her while she was pregnant. Bottom line is she chose a crappy guy as husband material in the first place (obvious by the way she said he was treating her) but rather than take responsibility for that, and even going on to have his kids too, she'd rather try and blame someone else (the OW) and use her as the scapegoat. (Although, it sounds to me like getting rid of her husband was the best thing that could have happened to her in the long run. What a toad to do what he did!).
Wives, for the record, a woman cannot lure your husband away. A woman cannot force your husband to cheat on you, nor force him to have sex with her. A wife can push her husband to stray though, and, she can be so indifferent toward him that he may not want to come home to her at all....unless he has to! You have no idea the depth of deceit some of your husbands go to when they make the CONSCIOUS decision to cheat on you. Mistresses can unknowingly become as much of a victim as the wife, and ultimately both women end up being manipulated by the same selfish guy. Fact!
Here is the link to the Oprah Show I did in 2007, as it also shows some 'wronged (American) wives.'
It's beyond crazy that the wife continually chooses to blame the other woman when her husband is caught playing away. Ironically the wife needs to look at herself in the relationship and see what responsibility she needs to take as to why he is looking for another woman in the first place. So many women check out of their marriages both physically and mentally that it's no wonder so many men are out there on the prowl seeking fulfillment of their emotional and physical needs. Men are simple creatures, they just need attention. Wives if you start to realize that, and, try to act more like a mistress at the same time, then I guarantee you will stop many of your husbands from cheating on you!
I'm working with a lot of wives out here in LA, coaching them on how to keep their husbands from straying. I'm using my past, as a mistress, to help troubled marriages. Being the only 'Infidelity Analyst' in the world I'm a busy girl right now, helping women across America "affair proof" their marriages. I'm not looking to alienate anyone, I am trying to empower all women to be the best they can, to be in charge of their relationships and their minds and....to keep their man!!!!!
Must dash, there's work to be done.